拘り合う - JP-EN Jisho

拘(かかず)り合(あ)う

intransitive verbGodan verb with 'u' endingword usually written using kana alonecolloquial

to be mixed up with; to have a connection with (a troublesome matter)

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intransitive verbGodan verb with 'u' ending

to be finicky about (some triviality); to be a stickler about

intransitive verbGodan verb with 'u' ending

to hang about; to take part (in some work); to bother (someone)